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Looking for that needle in a haystack.

I feel like we are looking for a needle in a haystack. You see, what we seek is very unique, rare, and precious. We believe in my heart that the woman for us exists, and we won't stop looking until we find you. We seek someone who can give as much as receive. Someone to be a friend as well as a lover, to help each other to grow, to be comfortable enough to be ourselves, to laugh until our sides hurt, to offer each other encouragement, kindness, compassion, unconditional caring and understanding, tenderness and passion. To have a hand to hold when life gets tough, someone to appreciate the little day-to-day acts of thoughtfulness. An understanding heart that's always there to listen. Someone who is there with a smile and open arms. Someone who makes you feel happy from the inside out. This isn't about casual sex. This is about a meaningful, long-term loving companion for us.

What we are NOT:

We are not a couple, "looking to spice things up" our relationship is quite hot actually and depth of our love never ceases to surprise us both.

We are not, looking for a lady as a birthday present to either one of us! People are not gifts and we're actually looking for a deeper relationship than that. If you choose to spend time, love and intimacy with us it is because you choose to not because someone else wants or needs a gift.

We are not, looking for quick hook ups or random encounters. We are not swingers that are counting or keeping score as to how many random encounters we can rack up.

We are not looking for more women for him to have sex while I pretend to be bisexual. There is no pretending here. I love women just as much as my husband.

My husband and I are both professionals in our careers. We are black, educated, don't speak "ebonics". I am 5'2" and of average build. My husband is 6'2" and the same build.

We have been married for 26 years; our relationship is extremely steady and strong. This is not something that just popped into my head one night. So, if you are a single bi-sexual woman who would love to have the best of both worlds in one relationship, and is just as capable of giving as receiving, and can picture us hanging out, cooking, watching a movie, taking a walk in the woods, enjoying a picnic lunch and traveling, then you could be the one for us. I know that this dream will come true, with time, trust and a little luck.

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EthnicityMixed Race
National heritageEthiopian
Height157 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthShoulder length
Facial HairNone
Best featureEyes
Health ConditionEpilepsy
Bra size34 / 75
Cup sizeD
My AttractivenessAttractive


Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNo
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleDirector of IT

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness

Sexual Activities

Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isNot my thing
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person